The Dating Thread

[TheEconomist]

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[sandwich_bird]

Do people really care that much if their girlfriend is intelligent? I mean it's a nice bonus but as far as I'm concerned their only job should be looking fine and going to the gym.

Meh, depends what you seek. You want a partner, a trophy or a hole? If the former, nobody has time to waste on dead weight.

VoK, where the hell do you get those 0.o. I can attest to the artist edge though, it's a niche thing but I assume that's always been a major part of my angle since I learned to play music

[TheEconomist]

i would totally play a girl some music, except it might give her the wrong impression. Like, I have feelings or I care about communicating something to her. I would totally play her some sex R&B and let some other dude do the work though.

Efficiency!

[Visions of Khas]

VoK, where the hell do you get those

By having standards, not being desperate, and knowing socio-economic status means shit all. I don't make anything near what Econ does, and these ladies didn't care. I'm not interested in girls, I'm interested in women.


... And volunteering with rescue pit bulls doesn't hurt. Women love puppies.


There's also something to be said for introversion: you simply don't care about social convention. I guess some women find that refreshing.


It all goes back to my previous point directed at Nissa: Different things appeal to different people. Be your fucking self. There are a myriad of strategies that work; simply sticking to one strategy won't win you every battle.

[sandwich_bird]

I agree to some extent with what you said; always had success doing my own thing despite being introverted. But I meant literally where lol. You must be living in Seattle, Boston or something? I swear, women like these around here are never single unless they don't want relationships. I was lucky in my case to find one at the right time.

[TheEconomist]

knowing socio-economic status means shit all

.... lol, I'm an economist and I don't even use that term

Oh, and studies prove other wise, women ONLY date/marry above themselves in socio-economic status, but they do date below themselves for the right feels... cue Jordan Peterson

https://www.youtube.com/results?sear...+chosing+mates

Also, women, on average, prefer "Narcissistic, Machiavellian, unavailable men" so that soothing musician shit only works in select situations.

https://www.google.com/search?q=wome...hrome&ie=UTF-8

**NOTE**I am speaking in general, nothing against you. I don't know you at all and from what I can gleam from that, much respect.




I can't help but notice that none of those women stayed with you. Why is that? I'm honestly curous, not throwing shade. That many girls in two years implies .. something. But I'm not sure what. Getting girls is easy. Getting high quality girls is doable with little effort. Showing that you can be the provider for her and beating all the other dudes, THAT'S what's hard. When you've got these same girls pressuring you for marriage, THEN you've made it. Women date around and go hot and cold so fast it'd make your head swim, being you were with her a time doesn't mean anything. Every guy gets some time with that one girl that's way out of his league, she was probably looking for a safe boyfriend. In this day and age, girls can date losers all they want without ever expecting anything more from them. Doesn't mean that loser isn't a loser.

Sure, socio-economic status doesn't matter as much in dating, all the broke ass artists pullin' chicks can attest, but when it comes to actual marriage and chosing a mate, it's pretty much the deal maker. From there, just don't be violent or cruel, and you've got her sowed up.

Also, what did they look like? It's not right, and I feel bad for women, but just because they are smart doesn't mean their sexual market place value is any higher.



**NOTE**I am speaking in general, nothing against you. I don't know you at all and from what I can gleam from that, much respect.

AND IF IT WAS CLEAR ENOUGH, I MEAN VOK NO INSULT!!! :d:d:d:d



All of that being said, there's no account for taste/skills. Just look at sssniperwolf and her boyfriend. She's one of the biggest YT stars, and definitely in the top-tier of beautiful women.

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But, still, from one player to another, good lookin' bro

[Visions of Khas]

You must be living in Seattle, Boston or something?

No sir. I live in Charlotte, North Carolina, banking capital of the US. Which is why I'm surprised Econ lives in Tennessee and not here; real estate here is a buyer's market.

Oh, and thanks for the SniperWolf pic. Now I need some brain bleach.

Haha but seriously. Start a puppy mill. Women will melt.

Also, women, on average, prefer "Narcissistic, Machiavellian, unavailable men" so that soothing musician shit only works in select situations.

I've read papers that say, while attractive, "Dark Triad" men make poorer long-term partners and parents. Hence the unhappy marriages we see around us.

Also, what did they look like? It's not right, and I feel bad for women, but just because they are smart doesn't mean their sexual market place value is any higher.

I found them all very attractive. The accountant, though beautiful, lied about her marital status, age and having kids, so I walked out on that one on the second date. Guess she was having an early mid-life crisis. (I like older women.) Honestly, at this age, I think kids are more or less a given, I just don't tolerate lies. Always be willing to walk out; don't be a door mat.

Speaking of which, I wondered: Econ, why are you pulling out all the stops for that one lady who lives an hour away? For the lolz?

[TheEconomist]

Speaking of which, I wondered: Econ, why are you pulling out all the stops for that one lady who lives an hour away? For the lolz?

Because when I take a girl out, of any caliber and for any purpose, I try to make it as damn near close to the best dating experience she's ever had as I can, without spending much money

Which is why I'm surprised Econ lives in Tennessee and not here; real estate here is a buyer's market.

I'm trapped here, shackled to my father's properties, or else I would be in Seattle or Chicago and probably married by now.


--- *skkkkkrrrrrttttt* Hold the fuck up, I finally messaged this bitch the itinerary and was working on a time, she said Saturdays was best, I said okay, Saturday is then .. then.. she fucking asked me what day it was today, too fucking lazy to even look up the day, much less even know it. Like she doesn't even understand that Saturday is tomorrow. That was after I went through all the effort of extracting information about what the fuck she likes to do ... I'm going to give the blood in my dick a few hours to recede and I may just next this bitch. Yeah, the late nigh texting is nice, but during the day, damn she's got some boner-killer qualities.

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I dunno mah boys, is she worth it? Far from the best chick I'm working on now. Or maybe I should just save my energy for the bonfire chick since I'm already cutting it close in scheduling (2 hours apart)

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[Nissa]

Nissa, tell me something. Is it that men will only date girls in fancy dresses; or is it that you are interested in the type of man that wants you dressed that way?

Dresses? What? What does that have to do with anything? "Dressing well" is dressing in a way that presents yourself well, and can include going all out on makeup and nails.

Actually, I look meh in prettier stuff. Not a big dress person.

And Nissa arguments reminds of the articles I read made by women who said women had it harder in online dating because they had to reject guys all day and that that was heart wrenching.. Because, yeah, all those girls committed suicide because they reject too many people (vs guys who can't get chicks)

I was saying that women have a disadvantage in dating in general, not online. I don't know anything about online dating.

All I was really saying that the cultural ability to ask someone out without being labeled (or actually being) a lesser person is a powerful, powerful thing. Given that women really want relationships, if you ask enough, you will find someone. Too many men blame women for their own laziness. Not that I'm saying any of you are like that.

[TheEconomist]

On average, every woman has one kid. On average, men either have zero kids (unmateable) or two kids with two different women. There is a significant portion of the male population that is considered worthless to women, ever heard of a woman that wasn't fuckable to at least one dude? Even fat slobs of lard have that one lonely loser willing to shower her with housing. Whereas there are entire departments in government dedicated to studying what is basically the diminishing sexual value of men due to unemployment.

Furthermore, rejection of a woman is pretty basic, it means you fell below the standard of the hot/crazy matrix, so either improve your hotness (gym, make-up, clothes) or tone down your crazy.

Rejection for a man is a rejection of what you are as a person: your accomplishments, your ambitions, your personality, your social skills.

A woman can have all of those things in spades, and still be rejected, which definitely comes with its own deep hurt, but it isn't a rejection of you as a person, which is a crucial difference. A woman can always improve her attractiveness (we've all seen the butterfaces in the gym with the fat ass that everyone wants to fuck) and man can't always magically make wealth, power, and prestige fall from the sky.


Also, my previous post:

http://sclegacy.com/forums/showthrea...l=1#post204003

I will concede that it's possible that the tables are shifted the deeper the relationship goes (since women are more interchangeable than men to the opposite sex) and the older those involved become (sexual market value).

Either way, you should try online dating, don't let me douchebaggery deter you. Hell, I'd even be glad to help you and use my dude-dar to see if he's being sincere, because everyone woman thinks they can see a man's soul but none of them can.